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#NudgeYourWorld Part I: Negative Thinking & Meeting the Stoics

08.13.2014 by Nicola //

The Antidote by Oliver Burkeman

Day 1: Channeling My Inner Stoic

As previously mentioned, this week I’m a guinea pig for Canongate’s Nudge Your World project. I’m reading The Antidote by Oliver Burkeman – billed as “happiness for people who can’t stand positive thinking” – and trying to live by its learnings.

The book opens at the Get Motivated! conference in San Antonio, Texas, where Burkeman presents himself as something of a dry, English straight man staring into the cheesy-grinned face of overwhelming positivity. His writings here, he says, are “not an argument for bloody-minded contrarianism.” Rather, he attempts to seek happiness that rises through negativity.

It’s probably the best ‘self-help’ book that Canongate could have selected for me. Burkeman argues that feeling negative emotions rather than drowning them out can be a strong way to leverage happiness. I can relate. As a critic, one of my hobby horses is railing on Man of Steel and films of its ilk. As Batman says, “all men have limits” and my limit for sitting through 160 minute movies that are po-faced and have no levity to balance out the darkness was reached some time ago.

In Chapter 2, What Would Seneca Do? Burkeman outlines some of Seneca and the Stoics’ theories and techniques. One tenet of Stoicism that especially struck me was ‘the premeditation of evils’ – which states that one may prepare for the worst by considering it. Rather than eschewing negativity, as man modern-day positivity proponents recommend, the Stoics say face down the worst case scenario.

Mentally, I’ve always expected the best but prepared for the worst. Taking that one step farther, as Seneca does, and living that fear is the next vital step. Burkeman did this by speaking aloud on the subway; I did it by facing down my recent mind-block about exercise and got on with starting that 30 Day Shred. (Then could barely walk for 2 days, now need to get back to it. Stoics 1 – Nicola 0.)

One illuminating way that made me feel like I got this right, though, is in my business plan. When asked by my business advisor (my dad) for the one reason why I wanted to set up as self-employed, my ultimate goal, I told him: so I don’t have to work in retail again. That’s my bottom, and I’ve already lived it. (Lots of people work in and enjoy working in retail – I didn’t!) By facing down that potential bottom – setting myself a lower bar – I always have something to aim for. Even during the laziest of months.

Next up are chapters 3 and 4,which take on meditation and goal setting. I’ll speak to you then!

 

Further Reading:

– One that’s been on my list for too long: Seneca’s On The Shortness of Life (more on it later).

– Also check out Austin Kleon’s summary and favourite quotes from the essay.

– David Foster Wallace’s stunning This Is Water speech [VIDEO] – reproduced here in text – a fantastic extension of Stoicism, extended to include compassion and empathy.

Categories // Books Tags // #NudgeYourWorld, Oliver Burkeman, Seneca, Stoics, The Antidote

#NudgeYourWorld – I’m Canongate’s Guinea Pig!

08.05.2014 by Nicola //

Recently Canongate Books put a call out for literary guinea pigs for a new project called #NudgeYourWorld.

I volunteered.

 

 

The eminent playwright Sir Tom Stoppard once said that the right words, in the right order, can nudge your world a little.

This is the thinking behind Canongate’s bookish experiment – #NudgeYourWorld.

 

Each month, they are picking one book and sharing its lessons – then it’s up to us to try to apply its wisdom to our daily lives.

I’m participating in #NudgeYourWorld – a project which encourages readers to apply the wisdom of selected books into their day-to-day lives.

The first literary guinea pig for the project was Milo McLaughlin, who explored Edward Slingerland’s paradoxical Trying not to Try. He did really rather well with it.

Now it’s my turn, and I’ll be reading and living by The Antidote by Oliver Burkeman.

Over the next 7 days, I’ll be reading Oliver’s antidote to self-help and the cult of positive thinking in his book which is dubbed, happiness for people who can’t stand positive thinking”.

Here’s the book trailer for more on the book.

 

 

Keep up with BEDA to learn how I get on!

Have you read a book that changed your life?

Categories // Books Tags // #NudgeYourWorld, BEDA, Canongate, Oliver Burkeman, robotnic, The Antidote

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